The acronym bdsm is broken down thusly: Bondage|Discipline - Dominance|Submission -Sadism|Masochism.

BDSM is a sexual orientation which has historically been perceived as a psychological disorder in much the same way that homosexuality and masturbation were. Today, the disorder label has been removed and studies have shown that a significant segment (up to 17%, according to some sources) of today's population practice some form of BDSM and estimate that up to 58% have BDSM related interests.

BDSM is not an invention of modern soceity. BDSM activities have been performed by many different religions and cultures throughout history...the Marquis de Sade *seems* to have been the one to bring it to the attention of the public with both his practices, writings and imprisonment.

BDSM is not fetishism. Fetishism substitutes an object for a relationship. Due to the necessity of trust, communication and exchange of power, BDSM often does incorporate relationships. The shared, dual reality of many BDSM relationships provides the participants the chance to explore every avenue of their deepest erotic fantasies.

Popular misinformed belief promotes the misconception that the Dominant partner or sadist always does as he/she desires, without any thought to the needs and desires of the submissive or masochistic partner, while in actual practice it is the submissive or masochist which tends to set the boundaries of the relationship.

BDSM can be dangerous; some BDSM activities/scenes are more so than others which is why it is always imperative that safe practices are adhered to. When in doubt, research...ask questions...never, ever take chances with safety. Remember, there are times when you are actually taking someone's life in your hands.

Contrary to popular belief, BDSM is not sexist nor degrading. Sexism, by definition, imposes dominant-submissive roles and feelings according to gender. In the BDSM lifestyle, these roles and feelings are chosen and given in a consensual, willing manner. There is an honesty to BDSM, an openness about inner needs which supersedes gender.

Most importantly, BDSM is a uniquely individual choice. There are no dictates about what is right and what is wrong. By stripping away the standard definitions of taboo, practicioners of BDSM are awarded the chance of experimenting and enjoying a wide variety of experiences...and living out their most erotic fantasies.