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Submissive
The
submissive is a man or woman, firm in their identity. They offer
themselves to a Dominant freely, of their own choosing. They
exchange submission for control, care, protection, and love and
are obedient because of personal choice, not because they are
forced to.
Their
first priority is pleasing their Dominant partner doing whatever
is asked in order to fulfill their desires while fulfilling their
own needs in the process.
The
submissive comes to the Dominant a person of need and desire, but
unsure of his or her place. With guidance, quickly learns what is
expected of themselves. With this learning, begins to give more of
themselves, of their essence, until he or she has given themselves
all to their Dominant. There is no power given up, no control
taken away. The submissive gives what he or she wants to give and
the Dominant holds their submission close to their heart, always
sharing, always giving back what is needed. An immense measure of
trust is built between the two: the submissive must trust the
Dominant completely in order to give so much and the Dominant must
trust the submissive in order to accept it.
The
sub seemingly has no responsibilities, but a deeper observation
shows otherwise. It could be said, and has been said by many, that
the Dominant holds all the responsibilities; however, many of the
submissive responsibilities are subtle enough to be overlooked. Of
course, as mentioned above, an extremely important one is to
please their Dominant partner. Perhaps more important, however, is
the amount of faith the submissive must have in the Dominant. The
submissive must believe and trust that what the Dominant does is
for the good of all concerned and learn to never question motives.
If ordered to do something the submissive will do so happily, and
without embarrassment, because that is what the Dominant wants and
does not harbor any sentiments or guilt from this action.
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